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A vendor relationship is years of contracts, payments, and conversations. The Relationship View already assembles the contracts and the payments for you. Now it assembles the conversations too, and lets you act on all of it without leaving the page. Every email with a vendor sits on their relationship page, alongside what you signed, what you pay, and what they committed to. Reply to the vendor from there. Bring your team into the thread before anyone responds. And because BRM’s agents are trained on the full relationship rather than the last message in your inbox, they can suggest what to do next and draft the email that does it. ✅ Available now for all BRM customers with a connected inbox

What Is Email in The Relationship?

Gone are the days of asking co-workers to search their inbox for context on a vendor Relationship, or trying to piece together the puzzle of a relationship previously managed by an employee who is no longer with the company. Now, every relevant vendor email informs and appears on each vendor Relationship in BRM. It even helps you build, manage, or end those relationships without having to leave BRM. Vendor threads appear in the Relationship timeline alongside agreements and transactions. Open one to read the full conversation, comment on it so a colleague can weigh in, and reply in place. Ask BRM to draft that reply, and it writes from the agreement terms, the spend history, the previous exchanges, and everything else assembled on the page. The practical effect is that the person handling a vendor conversation has the entire Relationship in hand, whether or not they signed the deal, sat in the negotiation, or were copied on the thread six months ago. Before we continue, let’s address two questions you may have:
  • Does my organization consider this address a contact on this Relationship? This is managed by your team in the Contacts tab.
  • Do I want my own emails with this address shared at all? Managed by you, in your own settings. Affects only your messages.

Quick Start: Turning It On

Setup takes about two minutes.
  1. Log in to BRM
  2. Go to My Account, then Communication
  3. Connect your inbox. Gmail or Microsoft Outlook, whichever you use for vendor correspondence. Connecting runs through your provider’s sign-in and takes about 30 seconds. If you already connected an inbox for Contract Collector, you will need to reconnect your inbox to enable auto-drafting and email sending.
  1. Toggle on “Share this inbox for email drafts, AI summaries, contacts, and relationships.” Attachments only keeps things as they were, with BRM pulling in contracts and documents but leaving the conversation out. Attachments + vendor communication surfaces the content of your vendor threads on the relevant Relationship pages, where your team can see them.
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  1. Set your exclusions. BRM suggests a starting set based on what most teams keep private. Review them and add any addresses or domains of your own. More on this below.
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💡 TIP You can change any of these at any time. Nothing here is a one-way door, and switching communication off stops new threads from surfacing immediately. If you mark an email as private, it will not show in the Relationship for others, but you will still be able to see it in your instance.

What You’ll See

1. The Full Conversation, in Context

Email threads appear as events in the Relationship activity timeline, in chronological order, alongside payments, logins, and agreement dates. Each shows the real subject line and the inbox it arrived in. The renewal conversation that started six months before the contract date. The escalation that got resolved. The commitment a CSM made over email that never made it into an amendment. All of it in sequence, on the page where the contract and the spend already live. This is what gives every other capability on this page its value. The drafts are good because the context is complete.
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2. Agents That Know the Relationship

“Push back on the 12% increase and ask for a two-year term.” BRM’s agents are trained on the Relationship in front of them. They draft from the agreement, the spend trajectory, and every previous exchange with that vendor, rather than from the last message in the thread, which is all a normal email client can see. Sometimes the agent gets there first. Where BRM has already recognised something that needs a response, the thread opens with a draft ready to go. Adjust it by editing directly or by telling the agent what to change. Generated replies default to Reply all, with recipients editable before you send. The result is that renewal prep, price pushback, and chasing an overdue answer all start from a first draft that already reflects the Relationship, instead of a blank reply window and twenty minutes of research.
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3. Reply to the Vendor Without Leaving the Page

Reply, reply all, and forward, all from the Relationship. The composer can be placed between messages in a thread, so you can respond in the right place in a long chain. Attachments are listed on each message and open in the main Relationship pane while the thread stays open beside them, so a contract sent over email is one click from the record it belongs to. Recipients stay editable throughout, so you can add a colleague to a vendor thread or take someone off it before sending.

4. Bring Your Team In Before You Send

Comment underneath any individual message in a thread, or on the email event itself. Comments are visible to your team and stay attached to that message, which is how you flag a specific line in a vendor’s reply rather than commenting on the Relationship as a whole. The renewal notice arrives. You comment asking a teammate to pull the usage numbers before anyone responds. The exchange sits with the email that prompted it, so the next person to open the thread inherits the thinking as well as the facts. Nothing moves to Slack and gets lost.
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5. Contacts: Two Controls, One Menu

The Contacts tab in the Relationship details panel is the answer to “why is this email here?” An email appears on the Relationship because a contact or a domain in this list matches one of its participants. Change the list and the timeline changes with it, including for correspondence already in BRM. Named people sort to the top. Role mailboxes and automated senders sort below them. Each row shows where BRM learned about the contact and when it was last active. Visible domains automatically add matching contacts, so adding a vendor’s primary domain is the fastest way to populate a quiet Relationship. Open the menu on any contact, and you get two options:
  1. Make my emails with contact private. Your side of the conversation stops being shared with your organization. Use this when the correspondence is vendor-related and still yours.
  2. Hide contact from relationship. That contact’s email stops appearing in the Relationship feed for everyone. Use this for the marketer sending campaign email or the system sending automated notifications. The contact stays on file, so anyone looking for someone to reach out to can still find them.
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6. Your Exclusions Always Win

Some correspondence is relevant to a vendor and still yours. A conversation with your own lawyer about an agreement. Anything touching compensation. A contact you happen to know personally. BRM ships a suggested set of exclusions based on what most teams keep private, and you can add your own addresses and domains on top. Anything on that list is never shared with your organization, whatever the Relationship settings say. You can also exclude in the moment, straight from a thread on the Relationship page, for the times you spot something in the feed that should not be there. 💡 TIP If a relationship has no contacts yet, that is deliberate. BRM only asserts a contact when it is confident, because a wrong contact pulls the wrong email onto a Relationship. Add the vendor’s domain from the Contacts tab, and BRM will pull the matching correspondence in automagically, including mail already in the system.

Why This Changes How You Work

Before a renewal call

Open the Relationship. Read the overview, check the spend, then scroll the conversation that got you here. Ask BRM to draft the agenda email. You are reading the Relationship rather than reconstructing it from memory and a PDF.

When a price increase lands

The old way: find the contract, check what you actually agreed to, search your inbox for what was said about renewal pricing last time, ask a colleague who might remember, then write a careful reply from scratch. Ninety minutes, and you are still not certain you have the full picture. The new way: open the Relationship. The contract, the spend trajectory, and the previous negotiation are all on the page. Ask BRM to push back, citing the term you signed. Comment to bring your teammate in. Edit and send.

When the person who owned a vendor leaves

Their correspondence with that vendor stays on the Relationship. The commitments made over email, the escalation that got resolved, the discount confirmed in a reply and never written into an amendment. Institutional memory stops walking out of the door with people.

When someone asks “what did we tell them?”

You open the page instead of asking three colleagues to search their inboxes.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can my colleagues read all of my email now? No. Only correspondence matching a contact or domain on a vendor relationship is surfaced, and only on that relationship’s page. Anything on your exclusions list is never shared, and BRM does not surface personal email with no vendor relationship attached. What is the difference between hiding a contact and making emails private? Hiding a contact removes their email from the relationship feed for everyone in your organization. Making emails private removes your messages with that contact from the shared view, and only yours. Your teammates’ correspondence with the same contact is unaffected. An email is on the wrong relationship. How do I fix it? Hover over the email and click the flag to report bad data, and our team will take a look. A thread I expected is missing. Check whether the sender appears in the Contacts tab. If not, add their address or the vendor’s domain. If they are listed but hidden, unhide them. Does this work with a shared or group inbox? Group inboxes are not supported directly, the same limitation that applies to Contract Collector. If a member of the group has connected their own inbox, correspondence reaching that account is picked up.

Need help?

If you have questions about Email in The Relationship or need help getting set up, reach out to our support team, and we will be happy to help.